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Self-care pays off. The right habits on diet and exercise are essential. But what are you doing to bolster your mental health? Gregory Scott Brown, M.D., author of The Self-Healing Mind, finds there’s a lot we can do. He’s identified five pillars of self-care, practices that are powerful, evidence-based medicine for the mind.

Gregory Scott Brown, M.D. joins us from Houston, Texas.

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Bio

Gregory Scott Brown, M.D., is a psychiatrist, a mental health writer, and the author of The Self-Healing Mind: An Essential Five-Step Practice for Overcoming Anxiety and Depression, and Revitalizing Your Life. A regular contributor for Men’s Health and The Washington Post, Dr. Brown also co-hosts Friday Sessions, a popular Instagram Live series about mental health.

Dr. Brown is a diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology. He completed a fellowship in integrative medicine at the Academy of Integrative Health and Medicine, specialty training in general psychiatry at the University of Texas Dell Medical School, and he received an M.D. from the McGovern Medical School in Houston. Dr. Brown is an alumnus of Rice University, where he earned a bachelor’s degree in anthropology and Johns Hopkins University, where he completed a post-baccalaureate premedical program. Prior to his transition to medicine, Dr. Brown studied music at The Juilliard School in New York.

Dr. Brown is a member of the American Psychiatric Association where he serves on the Council on Communications. His commentary has been featured in The New York Times, Men’s Health, and The Washington Post, as well as on The Today Show, Live with Kelly and Mark, and the PBS News Hour.

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For More on Gregory Scott Brown, MD

The Self-Healing Mind: An Essential Five-Step Practice for Overcoming Anxiety and Depression, and Revitalizing Your Life

Website – gregoryscottbrown.com

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Mentioned in This Podcast Episode

The Washington Post: 4 ways to find and build meaningful connections for mental health

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Wise Quotes

On Mental Health

“…Mental health on the other hand, is the driving force that really dictates how we live our lives. It’s how we interact with each other, how we love the quality of our relationships. It relates to our emotional intelligence. And so I think it’s important that as people think about how they can stay mentally healthy, that they’re also thinking about these other factors that play such a very important role in how we live and act.”

On Movement

“As a psychiatrist, I prescribe psychiatric medications in my practice every single week, but we can’t ignore the power of self-care. And what I mean by that is, as I outline in the book, things like Sleep, Spirituality, Nutrition, Breath Work, and Moving Our Body, Joe. These are things that all of us have access to. We all breathe 20 to 30,000 breaths every single day on average. We all move our bodies. We can all learn how to tap into the power of meditation, focusing on nutrient dense foods. And so if we’re learning how to live our life in a way that supports not only our physical health but our mental health as well, then I believe we’ll all be a little bit better off. A lot of people are intimidated by this idea of exercise. So Dr. Brown is telling me, I need to get a gym membership, or I need to sign up to run a marathon?  That’s great, but that’s not what I’m advocating here when it comes specifically to what we can do to improve mental health. Several  years ago, there was a huge study, a meta-analysis in the American Journal of Psychiatry, that actually found that people who move their bodies more had a lower risk for developing depression regardless of geographic region, regardless of age. And so, by movement, I mean even if it’s just walking to the mailbox every day, dancing with your partner in your house, doing some simple stretches in your chair. The more that we move our body, it’s enhancing a protein in the brain called B D N F – brain derived neurotropic factor – which kind of acts, Joe, like fertilizer in the brain and allows our neurotransmitters, those chemicals in our brain that are so important for mental health, to be released and to communicate with each other more efficiently.”

 

On Spirituality

“This is one of the most profound conversations that I have every week with my patients. And I’ll tell you, I love having this conversation because usually when I ask a patient, what do you think about spirituality? The very first thing that naturally comes to mind is religion, right? Some people are religious, some people aren’t religious. But the thing about spirituality as I write in  one of the Washington Post articles is that spirituality is all about connection. And for some that might mean connecting with a higher power through prayer, connecting with God. For others, it may be connecting with the people around them, altruism, selfless service, volunteering your time. I think of my grandmother when I was a kid. Every Monday, I would go with her to the soup kitchen and we would serve soup to the homeless community. That can be a form of connection. And even something like meditation, connecting with your inner self. So many people are struggling with this idea of feeling disconnected, that finding connection through spirituality can also be beneficial for mental health as well. I think one of the ways that we can do it is through meditation. And again, Joe, it is one of those things that a lot of people, if they’ve never tried it, are intimidated by it. It’s like, I made it this far. I’ve never meditated. Why should I start now? And I’ll tell you, the first time I tried it, it was a daunting task for me as well. Sitting alone with your thoughts, sometimes that allows you to hear what’s going on in your head even louder, but in time it gets easier. And I would say if you’re just starting off with a meditation practice, start off with 10 minutes. Set a timer on your phone, close the door to pick a room in your house or your apartment, close the door, and just find that space where you’re focusing on your breath, allowing your thoughts to go where they may, and you may find this sense of peace and tranquility that you wouldn’t have found otherwise. So I think that’s a good place to start.”

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About Retirement Wisdom

I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next and build their custom version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™

A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident.  Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one on your own terms.

Be intentional about your next phase. Design it.

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About Your Podcast Host 

Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career and create their version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™ He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes. Business Insider has recognized him as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.

 

The views and opinions expressed by guests on The Retirement Wisdom Podcast are those of the guests and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host, or of Retirement Wisdom, LLC. The Retirement Wisdom Podcast covers the non-financial aspects of retirement. From time to time we may invite guests who discuss other aspects of retirement planning, solely for educational purposes, not advice. Listeners are advised to consult qualified financial and/or medical professionals on those matters.

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Becoming a family caregiver is an enormous responsibility. Caregiving can take its toll and self-care can be neglected. Danielle Miura, CFP shares her experience and insights on what you should be prepared for and planning for.

Danielle Miura joins us from California.

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Bio

Danielle is a Certified Financial Planner (CFP®), a financial educator, and a true fiduciary advisor. She is frequently featured in the press and interviews. Spark Financials is a registered fee-only RIA firm headquartered in Ripon, CA. Danielle Miura founded Spark Financials to help family caregivers organize, simplify, and empower them through every life turn.

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Wise Quotes

On Planning for Caregiving

“First we have to lay the foundation for ourselves in our own financial situation. So about 65% of family caregivers have some type of health decline during their caregiving period. And so it’s ensuring that you have a long-term care plan in place, because as much as we would want to admit it, we have to take care of ourselves too. And it may happen that not only you’re taking care of a loved one, but you’re also needing your own long-term care. So having that plan in place for yourself, having your finances in order so you understand what those financial boundaries look like. So exactly when you need to pull from savings, how much can you pull from savings? That may be the decision of whether do I pull money from my 401(k )or do I pull it from a taxable brokerage account, because those can be two different tax implications. And then it’s looking at your loved one’s financial situation. If you’re going to be their power of attorney, you’re going to have to understand what that role looks like, and you probably should know where their accounts are, how much money they have so they can afford long-term care themselves. Do they have enough money to either pay for a care worker or pay for you to take care of them? So those are the questions that I start, I’m kind of like the devil’s advocate where I am [asking ] if this scenario happens, are you prepared for this situation? Because it may happen to you if just like me, I needed to take care of myself and I needed a couple weeks to do that and to get myself recuperated

On Boundaries 

“Take care of yourself and know those boundaries. It’s okay to have boundaries. It’s okay to have limits. Maybe you have a relationship with your loved one that’s not a healthy relationship. It’s okay to ask for help and find other ways so that you are not paying, you’re not doing the primary role of family caregiving. It’s okay to set up a support system where you’re not doing all the activities when it comes to caregiving. So for example, for my loved one, we have a neighbor that comes over and walks the dog. We have another neighbor that comes over and sees my grandmother an hour a day and they chitchat. So trying to spread out the wealth of caregiving is what’s going to help you in the long run. That could be an hour that you can go on a walk or an hour that you can relax. Sometimes you have to get a little bit creative. As I talked about previously. A lot of people don’t know they’re actually family caregivers. And the trouble with that is that there are so many great resources, but if you don’t feel like that’s part of your identity or that’s something you need help with because you’re not fitting into that role, you may not be a person that actually gets help. And there’s caregiver support groups.”

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About Retirement Wisdom

I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next. Build your custom version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™

A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident.  Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one on your own terms.

Be intentional about your next phase. Design it.

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About Your Podcast Host 

Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career and create their version of The Multipurpose Retirement.™ He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes. Business Insider has recognized him as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.

 

The views and opinions expressed by guests on The Retirement Wisdom Podcast are those of the guests and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host, or of Retirement Wisdom, LLC. The Retirement Wisdom Podcast covers the non-financial aspects of retirement. From time to time we may invite guests who discuss other aspects of retirement planning, solely for educational purposes, not advice. Listeners are advised to consult qualified financial and/or medical professionals on those matters.

 

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Fall is my favorite season. But it’s also an adjustment as the days get shorter and darkness come earlier and earlier. The rhythm of daily life shifts. One of those adjustments can be sleep. Why not use the change of seasons as a catalyst to upgrade your sleep?

Dr. Raj Dasgupta knows how to tune up our sleep hygiene – and why it’s wise to invest in better sleep.

Dr. Raj joins us from Los Angeles.

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Bio

Born and raised in Los Angeles, California, Dr. Raj is Southern California’s Official Hometown MD practicing medicine at the University of Southern California (USC).  Dr. Raj’s life mission is to educate patients, students and aspiring doctors to better patient care.  Other than that, he’s just a regular dude.

Dr. Raj completed his Internal Medicine residency at Michigan State University, Pulmonary/Critical Care fellowship at Columbia University, Saint Luke’s & Roosevelt Hospital and Sleep Medicine fellowship at Henry Ford Hospital. During his training, Dr. Raj received numerous awards including: resident of the year, fellow of the year and the Director’s Award for research. After his training, Dr. Raj worked at Abington Hospital which is affiliated with Jefferson University where he received the faculty teacher of the year.

Dr. Raj is Currently a Professor at the University of Southern California (USC) and received the faculty teaching award for the last 3 consecutive years. He is quadruple board certified in Internal Medicine, Pulmonary, Critical Care, and Sleep Medicine and is an active clinical researcher and currently teaches USMLE Step 1, 2, 3, and Internal Medicine Board Review around the world for the past 15 years. His 1st book in a series titled “Medicine Morning Report: Beyond the Pearls” is published by Elsevier.

Dr. Raj currently appear on various media platforms and television shows such as the “The Doctors”, “Bill Nye Saves the World”, “ESPN”, “Larry King Now” and “You Can Do Better” for more information check out his websites:rajdasgupta.com and beyondthepearls.net

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For More on Dr. Raj Dasgupta

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Wise Quotes

On the Benefits of Good Sleep

“My opening line is always: Sleep affects every single organ in the body. So I always kind of throw the question right back at the host and say, you tell me what organ you want and I’ll tell you what it happens. Where are the big ones? I mean, we always think about the brain. We think the brain about in a medical sense, in a psychological sense. When we talk about having being sleep deprived or not getting good quality and quantity sleep, it adds things to depression. It adds to things like anxiety. It’s going to be a risk factor for things like stroke. So it’s horrible when we talk about the heart needless to say that when we talk about that poor quality and quantity sleep, yes, you’re going to be at a higher risk for things like coronary artery disease, things like heart failure, things like arrhythmias. And the way I kind of summarize it is that at nighttime, what happens to our blood pressure and our heart rate? Well, they tend to take a break. They tend to dip down a little bit so they could take the stress off the heart. It’s beating so hard during the day, but when you have poor sleep at night, you’re never giving your body a chance to rest, especially if you have undiagnosed sleep disorders such as obstructive sleep apnea that affects 30 million people in the United States of America. Everyone has some kind of insomnia, but of course chronic insomnia with sleep deprivation is going to be horrendous.”

On Sleep & Our Immune Systems 

“When we talk about the body right now, I think what is important to bring it up is vaccines. With the winter coming up, we’re going to be pushing influenza. RSV has now become a vaccine that we’re getting more and more. If you’re immunocompromised and older in age…there were studies that show that when you get vaccine and you are sleep deprived, well maybe that vaccine may not work as much or as good as you want it to, which is kind of scary. And there were studies about that in the past. I know last winter all we talked about was the triple-demic, but now it’s not looking good for Covid this year. It’s going up there again. But getting good sleep affects your immune system. Whether we’re talking down at the cellular level and what happens when we talk about inflammatory proteins or just in general, how many times have you not had good sleep? Then you wake up with that little tickle in your throat, that little runny nose. So you want to do everything to keep you healthy. So to summarize what we just talked about, yes, sleep definitely affects what happens during the day.”

On Getting Good Quality Sleep

“My take home message is always going to be that sleep is so essential. Are you getting good quantity and good quality? You have to bring it up [with your doctor]. And sometimes I wish when I’m not wearing my Sleep hat, when I’m wearing my Pulmonary hat or General Internal Medicine hat, I wish I always remembered to bring up sleep, and sometimes I don’t. And that’s where you as a patient need to embrace that and mention it to your doctor so they could talk about your concerns and your questions. And then at least they can guide you in the right direction for some Cognitive Behavioral Therapy instead of just going right to Walmart or Walgreens…and picking up melatonin on the way out.”

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About Retirement Wisdom

I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next.

A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident.  Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one on your own terms.

Be intentional about your next phase. Design it.

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About Your Podcast Host 

Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career and create The Multipurpose Retirement™. He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes. Business Insider has recognized him as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.

 

The views and opinions expressed by guests on The Retirement Wisdom Podcast are those of the guests and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host, or of Retirement Wisdom, LLC. The Retirement Wisdom Podcast covers the non-financial aspects of retirement. From time to time we may invite guests who discuss other aspects of retirement planning, solely for educational purposes, not advice. Listeners are advised to consult qualified financial and/or medical professionals on those matters.

 

The Retirement Wisdom Podcast has surpassed 1 Million downloads, thanks to you.

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How does it feel when you read a book that’s been well edited? What if you brought an editor’s mindset to your life? Elizabeth Sharp McKetta knows the benefits of smart editing and shares what she’s learned about applying those principles to how we live. Listen in – and learn how to edit your life.

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Bio

Elizabeth Sharp McKetta is a storyteller and the author of thirteen books across genres, including Edit Your Life and She Never Told Me About the Ocean. She has published many poems and delivered the TEDx talk “Edit your life like a poem.”

She has literature degrees from Harvard (B.A.), Georgetown (M.A.), and the University of Texas at Austin (Ph.D). She wrote a Ph.D. dissertation on the intersections between memoir and myth, a concept that informs her teaching and writing (and her entire way of looking at the world!) She teaches for the Harvard Extension School Writing Program, Oxford University’s Diploma in Creative Writing, and the Book Year Writer’s Circle.

Elisabeth grew up in Austin, Texas and lives with her family in Boise, Idaho; they travel widely. In her free time, she loves to make up stories her with young children  hike, read, make vegan soups, make new friends, and drink tea with old friends.

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For More on Elizabeth Sharp McKetta

Edit Your Life: A Handbook for Living with Intention in a Messy World

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Wise Quotes

On How to Edit Your Life

“So this idea of editing a book ends when the book is done, whereas of course, with a life, our lives are open books and it’s never done until the life is over. So that principle of identifying in a life, what is this trying to be? And often with a life, I think it’s an easy way to break it down is what gives me energy, what innately feels good. And then another side of that in both books and life that we’ll probably circle back to is the question of what do I want to leave behind?…Where’s the energy on a day-to-day basis? How do we lean toward that and away from things that take it away? And what are the things that we really want to look back on and feel like we’ve given so that they can outlast us? Those questions I think are really good editing questions. So when I think about editing a life, I think about the same editing questions we’ll ask about a book, which are ultimately, what is this now? What is this trying to be? What works in its quest to try to be that and what is still needed to get it there? And I think those questions apply really nicely to lives.”

 

On First Choices

“…When I think of first choices, my Mom has a term that I love called painless long shots. She always encouraged all of her children to, rather than thinking about all of the backup colleges apply to the first choice, the worst they will say is no, or whatever it is. Whether it’s initiating a conversation with someone that we really want to be friends with, why not the worst that can happen as opposed to sort of scuffling around and thinking like, well, probably they don’t want to be friends with me anyway. Probably that Harvard won’t take me may be true. And so I feel that I was given a lot of encouragement early on to sort of try for the thing that feels the best. And throughout my life I found, and I’ve heard a lot of other people say different forms of this, which I find so interesting that often are first choices, whatever they are…This is the part that I think feels sort of Pollyanna-ish to say, but I feel that often the first choices are easier to obtain because they’re natural to us.”

 

On the Wisdom of the Seasons

“…Seasons are so wonderful, and I think that seasons remind us that nothing is permanent, which is both heartbreaking and reassuring that on one end, the thing that we’re worrying about today in this week probably won’t be something that we remember in a year or six months. And I think that’s important to keep in mind that this too shall pass. And certainly today, whatever the thing is, feels like the end or the beginning of the world, but most things are not at the end of our lives. We’ll look back and think of maybe five days when the world shifted for us, but probably it won’t be today. And probably this thing will be resolved in an okay way. And I think that the seasons also help us remember that everything has cycles and everything is reversible that a decision we make to move house or move job or step out of something, retire out of something or lean into something can always be reversed. We can always retire for a year and think, that was not for me. Or we can always take on new work for a year and think, Wow, time to scale back. And I think that if we think of things in seasons rather than I’m signing my name on the dotted line for forever, we just think, well, I’ll try this for a season. I’ll retire for a year. I’ll lean into this job for two years, I’ll give it a go. And the exception of course is having children not reversible, but most things are. And most decisions that we make in our relationships can ultimately be cleaned up, apologized for forgiven, that everything is reversible. So I think that is partly the wisdom of the seasons.”

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About Retirement Wisdom

I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next.

A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident.  Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one on your own terms.

Be intentional about your next phase. Design it.

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About Your Podcast Host 

Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career. He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes. Business Insider has recognized him as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.

 

 

The Retirement Wisdom Podcast has surpassed 1 Million downloads thanks to you.

Retire Smarter. Don’t miss a conversation in this free Retirement School:

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Planning for retirement? Dreaming of your retirement? Wise things to do, indeed. But what’s it really like? And what about when the honeymoon phase fades away? Brian Feutz shares his reflections on the first two years of his retirement. He began writing about retirement years before as he was researching it and planning his retirement  – and writing has become a big part of his new life after work.

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Bio

Brian Feutz lives on an island off the coast of Washington State with his wife of 32 years and the friendliest cat you’ll ever meet. He has an MBA, a Mensa certification, a wide variety of technical skills, and a decent collection of writing awards and recognitions. His left brain took the lead for most of his career, but in retirement he’s giving it a rest and focusing on creative passions. One of those passions is writing, specifically to help demystify retirement so average everyday people can understand, anticipate, and embrace the joys of retirement.

You’ll find Brian’s spoken and written words (fiction, non-fiction, essays, poetry, humor) scattered across the Internet on sites like Retirement Wisdom, Medium, BrianFeutz.com, DiscoverWalks, SmartNews, MakingOfAMillionaire, TowardsDataScience, EntrepreneursHandbook, BetterHumans, and many more.

Brian Feutz joins us from Washington State.

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Two Years Retired: An Honest and Thoughtful Reflection

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Wise Quotes

On Planning for Retirement – and the Reality

“You can read books about it, you can talk to people, you can do all that, but until you’re there, you don’t know what it’s like. And so I had that fear and I had to fight my way through it. I liken that to parachute jumping. You can read about parachute jumping all day long, but until you step out of that airplane, you have no idea how exciting and thrilling it is to be on the other side of the retirement line. So fear was a big one there. And then how do I fill my day? Looking back on it, I talk to people all day long these days about retirement, and one of their biggest concerns is Will I be bored? or How do I fill my day?  The third, probably the number one most important one, is do I have enough money to live the lifestyle that I want to live and make it all the way through until I die and not run out of money? So I struggled with those. And my way of getting around it was to learn as much as I possibly could. And I wrote it down. I started making notes and sharing it with my friends, talking with my wife and all that sort of stuff. And I ended up writing about these things and that’s how I got into writing.”

 

On Finding Your Rhythm

“I felt sort of a pang of regret briefly. And then I woke up the next morning and I felt so free. Oh, this is great! I don’t have to go to work. I don’t have to worry about it. And I realized I had a good night’s sleep, and the first few weeks or months was a little bit like that. Intoxication is probably the best word for it. I was so excited and I was running around talking to people and hiking and doing things with my wife, and I just enjoyed every single instant. I had a hard time going to sleep. I was having so much fun, not working. And then over the course of the first year, it was deer in the headlights. It was I have to get everything done that I possibly could. This is my personal experience, Joe, not everyone else’s. And I know it’s different for everyone, but this first year was chaotic. I went hiking, I went kayaking, I went bicycle riding. I rebuilt bathrooms. I went and visited friends and family, played with the kids. I wasn’t playing with little kids, they have professional jobs, but we’d go downtown, we’d have dinners, we’d do all kinds of fun stuff. And then I think slowly, probably at some point during the second year, that level of intoxication sort of just blended into a rhythm. And I settled into a rhythm where I am right now, and each morning I get up. My hobby is writing. I like to write. So in the mornings I’ll get up and write, and that involves interacting with people. It involves conference calls, it involves comments, research, not just hands on the keyboard, but a lot of additional activities.”

On Bringing Your Whole Brain to Retirement

“So I am a lot different of a person than I was when I was working. And it really surprised me that I was as creative as I am.   My entire career practically was in technology, and that’s the left brain logical side, very analytical. And then I started before I retired, I started exploring, jotting down notes. And I actually started writing a little bit before I retired in 2019. I started publishing articles and whatnot, and then I kind of got the bug and I started writing. And that’s a creative thing, and I’ve been writing a lot of fiction since then too. And my left side of the brain has not been quite as active as my right side of the brain. I read somewhere that when you hit the late fifties, sixties, seventies, and on up, even into the nineties, your brain doesn’t get any slower. It doesn’t get any worse. It changes rather than being one side or the other. Older people begin to use both sides of their brains simultaneously. And so I think maybe that’s where this piece cropped up in my creativity. And I actually took some classes in pottery – so much fun! I do woodworking, which is a very creative activity. I spent a lot of time doing creativity, so that’s me. But I think from what I’ve heard with other people that I talked to, there’s a pretty profound change that takes place in one’s behavior when they move from a work environment into a retirement environment because of the freedom that it allows you. You’ve got these pent up desires and passions that have been held back, and now all of a sudden you can release them and chase after whatever passions you want to. And the beauty of retirement is you can chase after whatever you want to and just drop it if you don’t want to do it longer because you’re not making money at it. So who cares, right? So I found that to be probably the most significant change.”

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Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career. He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes. Business Insider has recognized him as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.