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How does it feel when you read a book that’s been well edited? What if you brought an editor’s mindset to your life? Elizabeth Sharp McKetta knows the benefits of smart editing and shares what she’s learned about applying those principles to how we live. Listen in – and learn how to edit your life.

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Bio

Elizabeth Sharp McKetta is a storyteller and the author of thirteen books across genres, including Edit Your Life and She Never Told Me About the Ocean. She has published many poems and delivered the TEDx talk “Edit your life like a poem.”

She has literature degrees from Harvard (B.A.), Georgetown (M.A.), and the University of Texas at Austin (Ph.D). She wrote a Ph.D. dissertation on the intersections between memoir and myth, a concept that informs her teaching and writing (and her entire way of looking at the world!) She teaches for the Harvard Extension School Writing Program, Oxford University’s Diploma in Creative Writing, and the Book Year Writer’s Circle.

Elisabeth grew up in Austin, Texas and lives with her family in Boise, Idaho; they travel widely. In her free time, she loves to make up stories her with young children  hike, read, make vegan soups, make new friends, and drink tea with old friends.

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For More on Elizabeth Sharp McKetta

Edit Your Life: A Handbook for Living with Intention in a Messy World

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Wise Quotes

On How to Edit Your Life

“So this idea of editing a book ends when the book is done, whereas of course, with a life, our lives are open books and it’s never done until the life is over. So that principle of identifying in a life, what is this trying to be? And often with a life, I think it’s an easy way to break it down is what gives me energy, what innately feels good. And then another side of that in both books and life that we’ll probably circle back to is the question of what do I want to leave behind?…Where’s the energy on a day-to-day basis? How do we lean toward that and away from things that take it away? And what are the things that we really want to look back on and feel like we’ve given so that they can outlast us? Those questions I think are really good editing questions. So when I think about editing a life, I think about the same editing questions we’ll ask about a book, which are ultimately, what is this now? What is this trying to be? What works in its quest to try to be that and what is still needed to get it there? And I think those questions apply really nicely to lives.”

 

On First Choices

“…When I think of first choices, my Mom has a term that I love called painless long shots. She always encouraged all of her children to, rather than thinking about all of the backup colleges apply to the first choice, the worst they will say is no, or whatever it is. Whether it’s initiating a conversation with someone that we really want to be friends with, why not the worst that can happen as opposed to sort of scuffling around and thinking like, well, probably they don’t want to be friends with me anyway. Probably that Harvard won’t take me may be true. And so I feel that I was given a lot of encouragement early on to sort of try for the thing that feels the best. And throughout my life I found, and I’ve heard a lot of other people say different forms of this, which I find so interesting that often are first choices, whatever they are…This is the part that I think feels sort of Pollyanna-ish to say, but I feel that often the first choices are easier to obtain because they’re natural to us.”

 

On the Wisdom of the Seasons

“…Seasons are so wonderful, and I think that seasons remind us that nothing is permanent, which is both heartbreaking and reassuring that on one end, the thing that we’re worrying about today in this week probably won’t be something that we remember in a year or six months. And I think that’s important to keep in mind that this too shall pass. And certainly today, whatever the thing is, feels like the end or the beginning of the world, but most things are not at the end of our lives. We’ll look back and think of maybe five days when the world shifted for us, but probably it won’t be today. And probably this thing will be resolved in an okay way. And I think that the seasons also help us remember that everything has cycles and everything is reversible that a decision we make to move house or move job or step out of something, retire out of something or lean into something can always be reversed. We can always retire for a year and think, that was not for me. Or we can always take on new work for a year and think, Wow, time to scale back. And I think that if we think of things in seasons rather than I’m signing my name on the dotted line for forever, we just think, well, I’ll try this for a season. I’ll retire for a year. I’ll lean into this job for two years, I’ll give it a go. And the exception of course is having children not reversible, but most things are. And most decisions that we make in our relationships can ultimately be cleaned up, apologized for forgiven, that everything is reversible. So I think that is partly the wisdom of the seasons.”

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About Retirement Wisdom

I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next.

A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident.  Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one on your own terms.

Be intentional about your next phase. Design it.

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About Your Podcast Host 

Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career. He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes. Business Insider has recognized him as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.

 

 

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Planning for retirement? Dreaming of your retirement? Wise things to do, indeed. But what’s it really like? And what about when the honeymoon phase fades away? Brian Feutz shares his reflections on the first two years of his retirement. He began writing about retirement years before as he was researching it and planning his retirement  – and writing has become a big part of his new life after work.

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Bio

Brian Feutz lives on an island off the coast of Washington State with his wife of 32 years and the friendliest cat you’ll ever meet. He has an MBA, a Mensa certification, a wide variety of technical skills, and a decent collection of writing awards and recognitions. His left brain took the lead for most of his career, but in retirement he’s giving it a rest and focusing on creative passions. One of those passions is writing, specifically to help demystify retirement so average everyday people can understand, anticipate, and embrace the joys of retirement.

You’ll find Brian’s spoken and written words (fiction, non-fiction, essays, poetry, humor) scattered across the Internet on sites like Retirement Wisdom, Medium, BrianFeutz.com, DiscoverWalks, SmartNews, MakingOfAMillionaire, TowardsDataScience, EntrepreneursHandbook, BetterHumans, and many more.

Brian Feutz joins us from Washington State.

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Two Years Retired: An Honest and Thoughtful Reflection

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Wise Quotes

On Planning for Retirement – and the Reality

“You can read books about it, you can talk to people, you can do all that, but until you’re there, you don’t know what it’s like. And so I had that fear and I had to fight my way through it. I liken that to parachute jumping. You can read about parachute jumping all day long, but until you step out of that airplane, you have no idea how exciting and thrilling it is to be on the other side of the retirement line. So fear was a big one there. And then how do I fill my day? Looking back on it, I talk to people all day long these days about retirement, and one of their biggest concerns is Will I be bored? or How do I fill my day?  The third, probably the number one most important one, is do I have enough money to live the lifestyle that I want to live and make it all the way through until I die and not run out of money? So I struggled with those. And my way of getting around it was to learn as much as I possibly could. And I wrote it down. I started making notes and sharing it with my friends, talking with my wife and all that sort of stuff. And I ended up writing about these things and that’s how I got into writing.”

 

On Finding Your Rhythm

“I felt sort of a pang of regret briefly. And then I woke up the next morning and I felt so free. Oh, this is great! I don’t have to go to work. I don’t have to worry about it. And I realized I had a good night’s sleep, and the first few weeks or months was a little bit like that. Intoxication is probably the best word for it. I was so excited and I was running around talking to people and hiking and doing things with my wife, and I just enjoyed every single instant. I had a hard time going to sleep. I was having so much fun, not working. And then over the course of the first year, it was deer in the headlights. It was I have to get everything done that I possibly could. This is my personal experience, Joe, not everyone else’s. And I know it’s different for everyone, but this first year was chaotic. I went hiking, I went kayaking, I went bicycle riding. I rebuilt bathrooms. I went and visited friends and family, played with the kids. I wasn’t playing with little kids, they have professional jobs, but we’d go downtown, we’d have dinners, we’d do all kinds of fun stuff. And then I think slowly, probably at some point during the second year, that level of intoxication sort of just blended into a rhythm. And I settled into a rhythm where I am right now, and each morning I get up. My hobby is writing. I like to write. So in the mornings I’ll get up and write, and that involves interacting with people. It involves conference calls, it involves comments, research, not just hands on the keyboard, but a lot of additional activities.”

On Bringing Your Whole Brain to Retirement

“So I am a lot different of a person than I was when I was working. And it really surprised me that I was as creative as I am.   My entire career practically was in technology, and that’s the left brain logical side, very analytical. And then I started before I retired, I started exploring, jotting down notes. And I actually started writing a little bit before I retired in 2019. I started publishing articles and whatnot, and then I kind of got the bug and I started writing. And that’s a creative thing, and I’ve been writing a lot of fiction since then too. And my left side of the brain has not been quite as active as my right side of the brain. I read somewhere that when you hit the late fifties, sixties, seventies, and on up, even into the nineties, your brain doesn’t get any slower. It doesn’t get any worse. It changes rather than being one side or the other. Older people begin to use both sides of their brains simultaneously. And so I think maybe that’s where this piece cropped up in my creativity. And I actually took some classes in pottery – so much fun! I do woodworking, which is a very creative activity. I spent a lot of time doing creativity, so that’s me. But I think from what I’ve heard with other people that I talked to, there’s a pretty profound change that takes place in one’s behavior when they move from a work environment into a retirement environment because of the freedom that it allows you. You’ve got these pent up desires and passions that have been held back, and now all of a sudden you can release them and chase after whatever passions you want to. And the beauty of retirement is you can chase after whatever you want to and just drop it if you don’t want to do it longer because you’re not making money at it. So who cares, right? So I found that to be probably the most significant change.”

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About Retirement Wisdom

I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next.

A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident.  Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one on your own terms.

Be intentional about your next phase. Design it.

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About Your Podcast Host 

Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career. He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes. Business Insider has recognized him as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.

 

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It’s a great time to catch up. Listen in our best conversations on our retirement podcast over the past four months. Learn about how envisioning Future You, reframing quitting, smart techniques to say no, the science of peak performance aging, life lessons from a 102-year old physician and how making a difference can help others – and you.

If the snippets catches your attention, you can listen to the full conversations here:

Your Future Self – Hal Hershfield

Strategic Quitting – Julia Keller

The Power of Saying No – Vanessa Patrick, PhD

Growing Old, Staying Rad – Steven Kotler

The Well-Lived Life – Dr. Gladys McGarey

The Best Day of My Life So Far – Benita Cooper

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Check Out Other Best Of Compilations:

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About Retirement Wisdom

I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next.

A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident. Retire smarter.

Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one on your own terms.

Be intentional about your next phase. Design it.

About Your Podcast Host 

Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career. He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes. Business Insider has recognized him as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.

Thanks to you The Retirement Wisdom Podcast has surpassed 1 million downloads.

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What if you think differently about your retirement? Andrew Robin rejoins us to update us on his Tapas Life since we first spoke with him two years ago. His idea of a Tapas Life is a practical way to transition to retirement in a gradual fashion.

Andrew Robin joins us from San Francisco.

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Bio

Andrew Robin was born in Chicago and raised in Mexico City.  He holds a BA in Computer Science from the University of Texas at Austin and an MBA from Harvard University. Andy was an entrepreneur with his dad in the computer industry in the early ‘70s in Mexico City (his dad moved the family there from Chicago to pursue an opportunity).  He was in the semiconductor industry for 22 years (at Mostek, Monolithic Memories, AMD, and Lattice), mostly in marketing, but also as a general manager, and most recently as VP of New Business Ventures.  He was a house dad from 2002 to 2007 until his wife Carole and Andy’s youngest went off to college.Today he retains the duties of shopping/cooking, household maintenance, travel planning, and finances.  He also plays a lot of classical piano, some golf, enjoyed 6 years on the Board and Executive Committee of his large synagogue (Congregation Beth Am of Los Altos Hills), where he was also co-chair of raising an endowment, was part-time CEO of a promising tech start-up for 6 years (and remains on the Board), is an Executive Coach and Life Coach, serves on the Board of a foundation in Palo Alto and a NYC hedge fund and enjoys day-trips, lectures, and concerts around the San Francisco Bay Area and Silicon Valley.

He wrote Tapas Life to do some good for others.

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About Retirement Wisdom

I help people who are retiring, but aren’t quite done yet, discover what’s next.

A meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident. Retire smarter. Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make your life in retirement a great one on your own terms.

Be intentional about your next phase. Design it.

You’ll need more than a vision for a great life in retirement.

The next Design Your New Life in Retirement Small Group Coaching Program starts on September 21st. We have a great group forming. There’s room for just 2 more. Join us. Learn more here

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For More on Andrew Robin

Tapas Life: A Rich and Rewarding Life After Your Long Career

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Wise Quotes

On Building a Tapas Life

“So the basics and then like I did with piano, start doing something you love. What’s something you always wanted to do? Maybe it’s something you did as a teen and loved it, or in college and loved it. What if you went back to that? Or what if you have some friends who have some hobbies or things they do and you’ve always admired or maybe even been a little jelly of ’em and  maybe it’s a chance to try some of those things yourself. It doesn’t matter if you try it and you’re crappy at it. There’s no downside here. It’s not like because you tried it and it didn’t work out you can’t pay your mortgage and feed your family. There’s no cost. It’s a great time of life.”

 

On Failing Fast

“You can do the big fail. It doesn’t matter. In that case, you just mine it for learning. Okay, Well I learned it. I didn’t like that here. Well, here’s the parts of it I did like. Here’s the parts I didn’t like. And that’ll inform the next thing you do. But when you take on something new at this age, don’t expect to be a world champion at it in 10 minutes. Be prepared to have to invest some time in it and work at it. My first four years of piano lessons were pretty tough and now I’m 19 years in and I’m pretty good at it. And it’s just sheer joy. After those four years, it got progressively easier and more enjoyable. And so it was a big investment upfront. But man, I love it. It need not just be one. You can try one thing, You can try two things. If you like it, do more of it. If you don’t like it, let it go. Try something else. It is a new phase and and you have the time for it too, right? Unlike your busy years and your salad days ,as Shakespeare put it, what else are you gonna do? You’ve got some time to invest in it.”

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About Your Podcast Host 

Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career. He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes. Business Insider has recognized him as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.

Retire Smarter. Don’t Miss an Episode – Follow on Apple Podcasts or

SubscribeGoogle Podcasts | Spotify | iHeartRadio | TuneIn | RSS

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There’s a lot to plan for in retirement.  A big one may be caregiving. Jarie Bolander was suddenly thrust into the role of caregiver when his wife Jane was diagnosed with a terminal illness in 2016. He joins us to share his lessons learned in the hopes that it will help others. He’s written a book Ride or Die: Loving Through Tragedy, A Husband’s Memoir about his experiences as a caregiver.

Jarie Bolander joins us from San Francisco.

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Bio

Jarie Bolander caught the startup bug right after graduating from San Jose State University in 1995 with a degree in electrical engineering. With 6 startups, 7.75 books, and 10 patents under his belt, his experience runs the gamut from semiconductors to life sciences to nonprofits. He also hosts a podcast called The Entrepreneur Ethos, which is based on his last book by the same name. When he’s not helping clients convert a concept to a viable strategy, he can be found on the Jiu-Jitsu mat (he’s a blue belt), interviewing entrepreneurs on his podcast, or researching the latest in earthship construction techniques. He’s engaged to a wonderful woman named Minerva, her daughter, and their Bernedoodle, Sage. Currently, Jarie lives and works in San Francisco, where he works as head of market strategy for Decision Counsel, a B2B growth consulting firm.

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For More on Jarie Bolander 

Ride or Die: Loving Through Tragedy, a Husband’s Memoir

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Wise Quotes

On Community

“The burden of life is not a solo sport. And I know, life is joy. But there is a burden to living because of stuff like this. You get injured. You lose your job. Your wife dies or your husband dies. Your kid gets sick. You cannot shoulder the burden alone. You just can’t. I don’t care how strong you are, even on the most elite military units in the world, it’s a team. They spread the misery, right? It’s individual. But they know that their buddy’s got their back if the thing hits the fan. They know that in their soul. But, us normal folk, we generally don’t have that kind of discipline or that connection, and community. I strive every day to continue to build those strong bonds with the community. I’m here today because of that, all my friends, and it’s powerful.”

On Being Present

“She needed me to be present for her. And over time I realized that, and then, even she even acknowledged it. She’s like, Look, I know you need to get away from this.  This was the gift that I always think about. She was worried about my health and well-being too. So I think for men, it’s not always what you’re doing as a caregiver. It’s being present. It’s being thoughtful. It’s like listening. It’s like having them being heard. Because they’re in a awkward spot. Jane was a Type A entrepreneur, changing the world, doing whatever she wants.  Now she’s like, Hey babe, can you get me some towels? Hey babe, what’s it like outside in the real world? It felt like prison to her. I learned about myself that if you have a halfway decent attitude, you could pretty much get through anything. You don’t have to be stellar. You just have to show up and be committed. And you’re going to make mistakes and things are not going go bad. But if you’ve got good intent, you’re working towards it.”

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About Retirement Wisdom

I help people who are retiring, but not quite done yet, discover what’s next. A long retirement is a terrible thing to waste. And a meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident. Retire smarter. Schedule a call today to discuss how The Designing Your Life process created by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans can help you make yours great.

Be intentional about your next phase. Design it.

The next Design Your New Life in Retirement Small Group Program starts on September 21st. Learn more here

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About Your Podcast Host 

Joe Casey is an executive coach who also helps people design their next life after their primary career. He created his own next chapter after a twenty-six-year career at Merrill Lynch, where he was Senior Vice President and Head of HR for Global Markets & Investment Banking. Today, in addition to his work with clients, Joe hosts The Retirement Wisdom Podcast, which thanks to his guests and loyal listeners, ranks in the top 1 % globally in popularity by Listen Notes. Business Insider has recognized him as one of 23 innovative coaches who are making a difference. He’s the author of Win the Retirement Game: How to Outsmart the 9 Forces Trying to Steal Your Joy.