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Making a career change at 50 isn’t something you should do on a whim. It takes planning and savvy networking to create the right encore career in the non-profit sector. Our guest on this podcast, Betsy Werley, of Encore.org, made such a transition to an encore career to the not-for-profit world herself after a successful business career. And she’s helped many people make smart transitions to second careers.

We discuss with Betsy:

  • What led her to pursue an encore career in the non-profit sector
  • Why the missions of The Transition Network and Encore.org attracted her
  • What the transition was like coming from the corporate arena into the non-profit world
  • The benefits – and challenges  – of  second act careers
  • How volunteering helps pave the way
  • The biggest obstacle many people face in landing the right non-profit role
  • Her advice for people considering a move into a non-profit encore career
  • What resources people should tap into when considering a career in the non-profit sector

Betsy joins us from New York City.

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Bio

Betsy Werley is Encore.org’s Director, Network Expansion. She has dedicated this phase of her career to building the encore movement and making later life a time of opportunity and contribution.

Betsy moved to the nonprofit sector in 2005, as The Transition Network’s first Executive Director. She led that organization through a growth phase from one chapter to 12. Her encore transition was profiled in Marc Freedman’s The Big Shift and Kerry Hannon’s What’s Next?

 In her Transition Network role, she was a founding member of Coming of Age New York City and the Encore Network Steering Committee. Betsy joined Encore.org in 2013 as an Innovation Fellow, expanding connections between Encore.org and on-the-ground programs in the US and around the world.

Betsy spent the first 26 years of her career as a corporate lawyer and a business executive at JPMorgan Chase. She served as a long-time board member and President of the Financial Women’s Association, and in 2002, launched a mentoring program for Baruch College undergraduate women business majors.

In 2017 she received Baruch’s Community Partner Award for her leadership of that program. Betsy has also been honored as the 2019 recipient of the PSS Impact Award for Leadership in Positive Aging.  Betsy is frequently quoted by the media and invited to speak on issues related to older adults as assets in society.

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Wise Quotes

 

On Networking

“I think people should always be aware – and people should always think life is long and thee people around me now are people with whom I want to maintain a positive relationship with. And to know that at some point they would think of you if they are looking for something – and you would think of them. And sometimes, I think people don’t realize how big a network they have already. So your dentist is in your network. Your doorman is in your network. That guy who sells you your car is in your network. So with that specific message of ‘Here’s what I’m looking for’, those are all networks that you can tap. So I think one challenge for a lot of people is that they are shy about leveraging their networks and saying to people, just for the heck of it,‘I hear something, I wonder if you have any advice for me. So really talking to people and learning how to leverage the networks that they actually have. It’s pretty diverse.”

 

On Volunteering

“You can certainly start out getting involved in volunteering in Board work while you are continuing to do your day job. In fact, I strongly recommend that to anyone I talk to as they’re looking ahead at a future career in the non-profit sector – so they can make connections. Tthey can build credibility, they can learn what they like and what they don’t like. And that will stand them in good stead at a time when perhaps they can afford to transition to the non-profit sector. And certainly, I advocate volunteering of all kinds during people’s whole career. I think it’s extremely important because it builds skills. It allows you to incorporate passion into the whole portfolio of your life in a way that your job may not. So again, I think people can build toward a later nonprofit job while still getting a lot of the satisfaction of engaging in the nonprofit sector. Even while they’re heads down in a for-profit day job.”

 

On Creating an Encore Career

“I encourage people to start now. I  love David Brooks’ formulation, encouraging people to switch their thinking from their resume to their eulogy at their funeral. What is the impact you want to make in the world? And how can you start out on a journey that will allow you to bring your skills and your passion to make that impact that you want to make.”

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For More on Betsy Werley

How to Land that Late-Life Job: Tips from a Nonprofit Executive – Encore.org

The Encore Network

(Full disclosure: Joe Casey & Retirement Wisdom are members of The Encore Network) 

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Resources Recommended in this Podcast

The Encore Career Handbook by Marci Alboher

The Chronicle of Philanthropy

The Chronicle of Higher Education

Encore.org

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Podcast Episodes You May Like

Why People Make a Career Change with Purpose Top of Mind – Chris Farrell

Retired, But Not Done Yet – Dr. Cynthia Barnett

Not Exactly Retired – David Jarmul

Advice for Successful Career Women Transitioning to Retirement – Helen Dennis

How Seniors Are Saving the World With Activism – Thelma Reese

How to Make a Wise Career Switch – Dawn Graham

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Related Blog Posts

How to Change Lanes to a Second Career

Find the Volunteer Opportunity That’s Right for You

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The best midlife transitions are not linear or predictable. You find your calling or life’s mission in different ways. The paths are winding. Unexpected events serve as catalysts to redirect you in ways you could not have imagined earlier in life.

The story of Steve Javie’s journey to find his life’s mission is remarkable.  And while his particular path or religion may not be relevant to you, his lessons learned just might be helpful in your unique midlife transition.

Bio 

A highly regarded referee in the National Basketball Association for 25 years, Steve Javie officiated 1,514 regular-season games, 243 playoff games, and 23 NBA Finals games, from the 1986-87 season to the 2010-11 season. Highly respected for his game management skills, Javie was also a Crew Chief for 22 years. During his career, he was a board member of the National Basketball Referees Association and a key contract negotiator.

Steve retired from the NBA in 2011 – and in 2012 began a seven-year course of study — in the Archdiocese of Philadelphia to become a Deacon in the Catholic Church. He was ordained on June 8th, 2019, and serves as an ordained Deacon at St. Andrew’s Catholic Church in Newtown, Pennsylvania. In addition, Steve Javie works with ABC & ESPN as a basketball analyst where you’ll see him in the weeks ahead as the NBA season resumes.

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Wise Quotes

 

On Taking Time With Transitions

“The advice I would give somebody who is retiring is it takes some time, some quiet time. First of all, number one, since you’ve probably been working for a number of years, don’t jump into something right away too quickly. Take that quiet time. Get that adjustment period to get to know your wife again, your family again, if you have any children at home. If not, maybe get to know that person who’s put up with us all these years and are [also] working. And don’t jump right into another phone call because your ego says, ‘Hey, you know,  this company wants me or that company wants me to be a consultant or they’re going to pay me this’ I think we deserve it to just sit back and relax. And I think within six months to a year or whatever it may be, I think then you can say, you know what, I’m ready to maybe do something.”
On The Importance of Mentors … and Learning from Mistakes
“I really believe that having great mentors is what it takes to be a successful official. One of the reasons …I learned this at an early age and I preached this a lot when I speak to younger officials at the high school level, you really have to be objective with yourself. You really have to be able to look at these game films…and be objective. “I missed this call” – it’s the hardest thing in the world to do for humans. You really have to admit your mistakes to be able to do that. Because I think, once you make your mistake, then you find out the big question you always say, when you make a mistake, (when watching video) is, ‘Why, why did I make that mistake? Why did I blow the whistle? Or why didn’t I blow the whistle? And I think if you can get to that point of admitting your mistake, swallowing your pride and saying, Okay, why did I do this wrong? Well, how can I improve? Was my positioning this way? Did I guess, did I have an open look on the play? There are so many questions you have to ask yourself. As I tell every young referee, be objective, admit your mistakes…But I can just relate it to everyday life too. I think it’s really kind of cool that we can, as human beings, at times admit our mistakes. And it makes things a lot easier.”
On Faith

“I just tell everybody, just to challenge yourself, to go outside your comfort zone and go a little deeper and you won’t be disappointed.”

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Related Podcast Episodes

The Skill Set for Life’s Transitions – Bruce Feiler

Retirement Planning Includes Getting Good at Getting Older – Rabbi Laura Geller

With the Freedom to Retire, Where Will You Plant Your New Tree? – Don Ezra

Take the Detour – A Second Act Career Story – Melissa Davey

 

Related Book Review

Answering Your Call: A Guide for Living Your Deepest Purpose

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Can seniors save the world through social activism in their life after retirement? Dr. Thelma Reese thinks so. And, she knows so, too. She’s the co-author of the new book How Seniors Are Saving The World: Retirement Activism to the Rescue! with BJ Kittredge. While we often see examples of senior volunteering, this book highlights seniors who are activists in various ways on a range of issues.

Seniors Helping Others in Retirement

The book tells the stories of seniors from various walks of life, ages, and backgrounds who are doing just that. They are investing their time, energy, and passion into causes that matter— and they’re making a difference. Whether it’s volunteering or activism that’s a fit for you, you’ll find these stories inspiring ways to get involved – in ways big and small.

We discuss:

  • Why she wrote this new book
  • What the diverse group of 24 seniors profiled in the book has in common
  • Some of the stories and causes detailed in the book of seniors changing the world
  • What she thinks we can learn from the pandemic
  • How her thinking has evolved during the pandemic on topics like ageism
  • Why intergenerational relationships are so important
  • The story of a new intergenerational course she’s creating with a group at Temple University and Osher Lifelong Learning Institute in Philadelphia
  • Her advice for seniors who want to get engaged in saving the world

Dr. Reese joins us today from Center City Philadelphia.

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Bio

Thelma Reese, B.S., M.Ed., Ed.D., all from Temple University, began teaching third grade in 1954.  When her two daughters were in school, she began her graduate studies in Educational Psychology, was awarded a pre-doctoral fellowship, and was active first in the field of Reading Psychology and Education.  She taught as an adjunct professor at Temple University and Arcadia University. When her children were grown, she became a professor of English and director of special programs at Community College of Philadelphia.

After early retirement at CCP, she created the Advisory Council for Hooked on Phonics and was its spokesperson in the ’90’s. In that role, and as director of the Mayor’s Commission on Literacy for the City of Philadelphia, she appeared frequently on television and hosted a cable show in Philadelphia. She was a founder of Philadelphia Young Playwrights, chaired the Board of Children’s Literacy Initiative, and organized the World Symposium on Family Literacy at UNESCO in Paris in 1994.

She is co-author, with Barbara M. Fleisher, of The New Senior Woman: Reinventing the Years Beyond Mid-Life (Rowman & Littlefield).  Their second book, The New Senior Man:  Exploring New Horizons, New Opportunities was published by Rowman & Littlefield in 2017.  Her latest book is How Seniors Are Saving the World:  Retirement Activists to the Rescue!, co-authored by BJ Kittredge, published by Rowman & Littlefield in 2020.

Reese and Fleisher created the blog www.ElderChicks.com in 2012, which is ongoing since the passing of Dr. Fleisher in October of 2016.

She lives in Philadelphia with her husband, Harvey Reese, who is an artist and the author of several books, including How to License Your Million Dollar Idea (John Wiley, publisher).

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Wise Quotes

 On Activism vs. ‘Clicktivism’

“I think activism really is just doing something that goes beyond thinking about it. I love the word that I found somewhere clicktivism, where we just click on or like something on Facebook. It goes another step. In some ways, I think we just redefined activism tremendously with the pandemic. I think seniors just by staying in, have been activists – just by not making things more dangerous for themselves and others. You can take it to the level  It doesn’t want the accolades, doesn’t want the notoriety, doesn’t want to be noticed necessarily, but wants to make sure that it’s happening, something good is happening – and how to part of that of getting it going and keeping it moving. So activism can range from picking up a phone to call your congressperson, to writing postcards, but it goes beyond the clicktivism.”

 

On Focusing on What Matters

“People who talked about downsizing (we’re not talking just about the time to actually get rid of material stuff) found that they were getting rid of some stereotypes, some opinions, some ideas that they held very strongly – that they didn’t all of a sudden didn’t matter anymore. Things that we thought were so important, things that would take hold of you immediately, even physical things that would take you immediately to the ER or an Urgent Care suddenly ‘This can wait.’, And this is such a big deal. So many things turned out to be things that could wait, including a lot of scheduled doctor’s appointments. And things that we had to attend to in person now we’re getting used to the way we’re communicating now and not seeing each other in person. That’s a big change. That’s a very big change. And I think for many seniors, they’ve been brought into a lot of the technological changes that they hadn’t embraced before.”

 

Advice for Senior Activists

“First of all, take care of yourself, be good to yourself. Count what’s good. Be computer savvy enough to Google everything that interests you. And when you find something that does, try to get involved. One thing we felt strongly about with this book was not just to tell the stories. At the end of each chapter is something called How to Connect. And if it interests you, you can connect by either going online and learning more… [and]  any of these can spark an interest in you. And it might be that you just want to read about it and then find something else. Don’t feel you have to act on the first thing that piques your interest, find something that you might sort of fall in love with. And now that we’re all getting used to not having to meet in person, it’s okay. You can do all this remotely and feel, just as involved. We’ve learned how to be just as involved this way. And as you are really involved in something, you will find that you’re not as involved [with] the things that are bothering you about aging. You’ll find something good about it. And you’ll find that you’re still growing.”

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For More on Thelma Reese

Buy: How Seniors Are Saving The World: Retirement Activism to the Rescue!

Thelma’s Blog: ElderChicks

Follow Thelma Reese on Twitter: @ElderChicks

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Mentioned in this Podcast

The Best Day of My Life So Far (Benita Cooper)

Coming of Age Webinar (with participant Colby Farrell)

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Podcast Episodes You May Like

Retired, But Not Done Yet – Dr. Cynthia Barnett

What Are The Keys To A Successful Retirement? Fritz Gilbert

Advice for Successful Career Women Transitioning to Retirement – Helen Dennis

Not Exactly Retired – David Jarmul

Retirement Planning Includes Getting Good at Getting Older – Rabbi Laura Geller

Why Building Resilience is Vital in Midlife and Beyond – Jan Zacharjasz

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About Retirement Wisdom

We help people who are retiring, but not done yet, discover what’s next.

A long retirement is a terrible thing to waste. And a meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident.

Schedule a call today to discuss how we can help you make yours great.

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What Will Your Life in Retirement Be Like After a Highly Successful Career?

Some people can’t wait to enjoy the freedom to retire. But for many of us, it’s just the beginning of the next chapter. What is it like to change lanes and perhaps never retire?

Professor Meyer Feldberg is the author of No Finish Line: Lessons on Life and Career. He joins us for a conversation about the book, his reflections on different phases of his illustrious career – including his post-retirement career – and his advice on continuing to move on, contribute, and grow throughout life.

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Bio

Meyer Feldberg served as dean and professor at Columbia Business School for over 15 years. He received a BA from the University of Witwatersrand in South Africa, an MBA for Columbia Business School, and a Ph.D. from the University of Cape Town. In 1972 he was appointed dean of the University of Cape Town’s Graduate School of Business. In 1979 he became director of executive education and associate dean at Northwestern University’s J.L. Kellogg Graduate School of Management. In 1981 he was appointed dean of Tulane University’s A.B. Freeman School of Business, and in 1986 returned to Columbia as professor of management and dean of the Business School. In 2003, he was named the Sanford C. Bernstein Professor of Leadership and Ethics and held the chair until 2007, when he became dean emeritus. In 2007, Mayor Michael Bloomberg appointed Professor Feldberg president of New York City Global Partners. Professor Feldberg is currently a senior advisor in the Investment Banking Division at Morgan Stanley. He and his family have lived in eight cities on three continents.

 

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About the Book

Meyer Feldberg is a storyteller. The source of his stories is his rich and unique life, which took him from South Africa under apartheid to a C-Suite in present-day New York, from the hallowed halls of academia to the frenzy of global investment banking. As with all storytellers, there is a purpose embedded in each of his stories that is specific in its details but universal in its message.

No Finish Line is Meyer Feldberg as his friends and colleagues know him. It is the professor dispensing sage advice. It is the mentor telling a tale about himself that is really about you. In his telling, Feldberg’s story―his successes and his failures―is a lesson plan for how to lead a worthy personal and professional life.

This concise volume reminds the reader of the importance of courage and decency in our relationships. Feldberg shows how values such as self-awareness, personal responsibility, and generosity play out in ways that in retrospect become pivotal. He relates his regrets as well as his triumphs, candidly sharing how our failures to live up to our own expectations can continue to haunt us. Written by a leading fixture of New York’s educational, cultural, and business elite, No Finish Line is an engaging portrait of what matters most in living a good and successful life. – Columbia Business School Publishing

Order No Finish Line: Lessons on Life and Career by Meyer Feldberg

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Wise Quotes

On Mentoring

“It gave me an understanding that there are two kinds of mentoring, mentoring that is destructive and makes life awkward and difficult for you and mentoring that helps you grow – where you admire the individual that’s working with you and assisting you and directing you.”

 

On Second Careers

“I don’t use the phrase second act or second shot. You’ve got to feel the energy of wanting to move on and move up, move on and move up. And then one day, I assume you say, I’m done. I’m not done. But to me, it’s not a second act or a third act or a fourth act. It’s just been moving on and moving up.”

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Related Podcast Episodes

The Skill Set for Life’s Transitions – Bruce Feiler

How to Make a Wise Career Switch – Dawn Graham

Retirement Planning Includes Getting Good at Getting Older – Rabbi Laura Geller

How Can You Be Better With Age? – Alan Castel

If You Love Your Work, What Challenges Will You Face in Retirement? – Michelle Pannor Silver

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Maybe you’ve achieved the freedom to retire or perhaps you’re on your way and working from home. In either case, life has changed and will be different for some time. Under these circumstances, what are the best coping strategies for anxiety in uncertain times? And can spending time in nature help us? Can we do our own ecotherapy?

In this special podcast episode, two cooped up guys in New Jersey talk with two guests to get their advice.

Stay tuned for the final segment where we share our personal observations on the lockdown and moving forward.

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Coping Strategies

First up is Nick Wignall. He is a licensed psychologist at The Cognitive Behavioral Institute of Albuquerque where he does psychotherapy with adults of all ages. Board-certified in behavioral and cognitive psychology, he specializes in empirically-supported treatments for anxiety and insomnia, including interoceptive exposure therapy for panic attacks, exposure and response prevention (ERP) for phobias and OCD, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I) for sleep difficulties.

Nick is the author of a recent book on therapy and mental health: Find Your Therapy: A Practical Guide to Finding Quality Therapy. It’s a nuts and bolts style guide to learning about the most important factors in choosing a therapist and how to go about finding a good one, either for yourself or someone you love.

Nick did his doctoral training in clinical psychology at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center in Dallas, including research in human genetics and psychopharmacology. Prior to that, Nick earned his Masters in Social Sciences from the University of Chicago and a bachelor’s in English Literature from the University of Dallas.

Nick lives in Albuquerque, New Mexico with his wife, his three young daughters, and German Shepherd, Charlie.

We ask Nick for his thoughts on:

  • How people can maintain their mental health in the pandemic
  • Coping strategies for anxiety in these times
  • How to best cope with isolation
  • How to get sleep patterns back on track
  • His advice if people need to seek professional help

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Wise Quotes

On Habits & Mental Health

“I really think habits are kind of the soul, the heart and soul of mental health.”

 

Habits vs Coping Skills 

“And what I mean by that is coping skills are a bit like your emergency break in your car. They’re nice to have, but you really don’t want to rely on them. Instead, I think you want to work to cultivate habits that strengthen your mental health and keep you resilient even when things get tough. So, I think this is especially important – when it comes to something like our current situation with COVID- 19 and the lockdowns. Because a lot of us have lost a lot of our normal habits and routines, that whether we knew it or not, we’re actually kind of buffering and strengthening our mental health.”

 

On Building New Habits

“I think probably the most important thing people can do is to first start to think about what are the habits that support and strengthen my mental health. And then given the unique kind of challenges and constraints of our current situation, how can I get kind of creative about building new or sort of modified habits and routines that will support my mental health.”

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For More on Nick Wignall

Nick’s Website

Nick’s book

Nick’s Email: nwignall@gmail.com

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Spending Time in Nature

Next up is Verla Fortier. With a Master’s in Health Science, Verla Fortier is a former Director of Surgery at The Toronto Hospitals in Toronto, Ontario, and a retired Associate Professor of Nursing at McMaster University in Hamilton, Ontario, Canada.

At 63, after a long and high-powered career, she was looking forward to retiring back to her hometown in Manitoba, when a routine visit to her own Doctor shattered her plans. Instead of moving back to enjoy life in the country, she was confined to her bed and she felt like her life was over. That was when she had an epiphany and decided to take her life and future into her own hands. She is now an author and speaker, sharing the almost miraculous results she has experienced in her own life to help other people live longer, and reduce the effects of chronic illness. Verla is the author of Take Back Your Outside Mindset.

We talk with Verla about:

  • What an Outside Mindset is
  • The benefits of spending time in nature
  • How we lose our Outside Mindsets – and how we can get them back
  • Her advice for spending time in nature safely

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Wise Quote 

“I was a professor of nursing and I went in for a routine doctor’s appointment. I was diagnosed with systemic lupus, which is a really serious immune disease. And I was told, ‘it’s a chronic disease.’ So, I was given a prescription and then my doctor said, ‘Avoid the sunlight because it could damage your DNA.’ So, I stayed inside wanting to be the perfect patient for a year. And I got sicker and sicker – and I could hardly walk. And I was just so depressed. Then I just finally decided to [do something]. I didn’t care anymore about what happened. So, I just went outside after a year of feeling like a prisoner in a cell. I went out there and I felt amazing. And I kept going out and I got better and better and better. And so that’s why I went into the Greenspace research because it helped me so much – and then I wanted to help others.”

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For more on Verla Fortier

Verla’s website

Verla’s Book

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Ecotherapy

Check out my favorite video on ecotherapy from Dr. James Hamblin of The Atlantic on nature-deficit disorder:

The Health Benefits of Going Outside

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Podcast Episodes You May Like

Our podcast is about preparing well for retirement and good living.

Tiny Habits Can Lead to Big Changes – BJ Fogg

How to Make a Wise Career Switch – Dawn Graham

With the Freedom to Retire, Where Will You Plant Your New Tree? – Don Ezra

The Joy of Movement – Kelly McGonigal

How Seniors Are Saving the World With Activism – Thelma Reese

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We help people who are retiring from their primary career – and aren’t done yet – discover what’s next. A long retirement is a terrible thing to waste. And a meaningful retirement doesn’t just happen by accident. Schedule a call today to discuss how we can help you make yours great.

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